But then again he wrote to me again telling me he wants to meet as if he didn’t ignore our plan that day. Any gay person thinking some guy will just fall into their lap is delusional. Also at out first date we made a plan for 2 days later but he never told me anything that day so we couldn’t meet. Nevertheless, our sex life has indeed slowed down over the past years. We have always had a monogamous relationship and have maintained that as one of the core values that our relationship rests on. He also sent a request to my mom but she declined for some reason before we met. Boyfriend proposing sex with other couples Dear Redditors, My boyfriend (M27) and I (M25) have been together for 7.5 years. Either play the gay dating game or get out of the other gay guys' way This doesn't mean you have to play every day. He does the same job as my father and he follows my old man on ig too and that was a bit fishy to me at first but he says that’s where he found me. Sitting on the sidelines will get you nowhere. I put my profile on gay and got a ton of likes. He’s a nice, thoughful guy but honestly I didn’t feel any romantic or sexual feelings for him and I feel bad about it because I do need someone in my life to treat me this way. One Reddit user explains why this would work: I came to the conclusion that gay men swipe on everything. But that is your good fortune and why you have the best chance to seduce a hot older women, especially if you follow these simple tips. He was so eager to meet so I accepted and we met. One night at my shift he even sent some gifts to my workplace before we met in real life. A couple of weeks ago, this guy around my age and I started following each other on insta, then he slowly started turning up conversations with me and subtly expressed his interest in me.